This past couple of weeks I
have updating my fifteen year old bathroom décor. I’ve been stripping wall paper, washing
walls, light fixtures, and switch plates.
I painted everything with two coats of a soothing foggy gray. (I think it gives the
room a spa-ish feel.) On Saturday, I sat
down to make curtains. Yes, you read
that correctly. Me… making
curtains. I’m no Becky Home-Ecky by a long shot. (No offense to my Becky friends, or my home-ecky
ones, either.) I don’t even own a sewing
machine. I had to borrow one from my
daughter, who has two of them. (I don’t
know where she gets her home ec.
talents.)
On a side, but related note,
I had planned to do this project last winter.
I went out shopping for new curtains to help me make my paint color
decisions. If you have a bathroom with
windows, and you've shopped for curtains, you know how this tale ends.
Bathroom.Curtains.No.Longer.Exist!
So I asked my Facebook friends for advice. The resounding answer was: “Make your own curtains.” YIKES!
And that’s how this project didn’t happen last winter…
Anyhow, I am not without
skills. I took the required home
economics in seventh grade, so I know some sewing basics. Also, over the years, I have created a few
projects with the use of a sewing machine. This project was not hard, just not
my cup of tea.
So, knowing I had to make my
own curtains, I went shopping for just the right material. I found a shower
curtain that I liked so I purchased two of them for my curtain fabric. The shower curtain fabric had a horizontal
stripe, but I wanted a vertical stripe, so I turned it sideways and got to work.
I finished the curtains for the first window; two panels and one valance in
just a few hours.
When I put them on a rod and
held them up to the window, I realized that the panels were an inch or two
shorter than what I wanted. Maybe I
could just move the curtain rod down a little? Also, I chose to use the
“factory hem” instead of doing my own.
That was not the best decision because the factory hem didn’t always
follow the grain of the fabric and I had to cheat a little to make it all work.
My final problem was that my stripes didn’t match up. The gray stripe on the valance was on my
left, and because I had turned the shower curtain to use its side seam as my
hem, the panels had the gray stripe on my right. This would not do at all!
Life is like making
curtains. Sometimes you screw up. Sometimes without even realizing it until
it’s too late. I thought about running to the store to get another shower
curtain so that I could re-make the curtains better. How much easier would life be if we could
have ‘do-overs’? Like when I’ve said
something hurtful, or made a bad decision, or didn’t pay attention when I
should have. But would our lives really
be better? Would our relationships stronger? Would we be thoughtful problem
solvers?
Would we be less humble and
more reckless with our thoughts, our actions, our words?
We’ve all had moments when we
wished we could just have a do over. For
the most part we can’t. And really, as
much as it may burn, this is one way we grow and learn and become a better
person. Right?
As for the curtains,
well. They’re just going to be a little
too short. And, because I learned from my mistakes, I made sure
the curtains I made for the second window flip-flopped in pattern. Now the valance of the first set of curtains
match the panels of the second set of curtains and vice versa. I’ve created matching sets – although not
matching curtains. Such is life. Now it’s time to hang ‘em up and move on.